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The problems I was referring to are things like insecurity, failed relationships, low self esteem, etc.. I never had any idea that all of these things could be somehow related to the fact that I am adopted. I have never known why I had these problems and always just assumed they were some sort of personal flaw that was somehow my fault. To learn that many other adoptees suffer from the exact same problems led me to believe that it could all be subconsiously tied to my adoption. As for my life otherwise, it has been pretty good. My a parents are pretty close to perfect and I have no complaints about my upbringing. I think the good upbringing and normal family life made me stay away from the adoption issue when trying to personally deal with these problems. I mean I just never had any idea that the two could possibly be connected.
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