Hey Raven,
I appreciate your honesty and your wisdom.

You are right, it
is about him...he's my son!
Now, I just have to figure out how to convince him to get help!
I think the best time would be when he is in his dark place as opposed to when he's feeling "fine". What do you think? What can I say, that I haven't said before, that will make the difference tho, without him shutting me out the minute he realizes what I want him to do? I look at it like drug addiction...how can I help him if he won't help himself? That's my biggest problem.
