[Rachelrmf]

I am 28 my DH is 30 and his uncle and aunt are 3 months pregnant. They are aware of the 37,000 we have spent on 4 failed IVF attemps And have offered the child to us to adopt. Thay have had 7 children taken by state over the years, but have since cleaned up their act by getting off drugs 5 years ago. She has a three yr old and wants to do everything to keep him. We are setting up home study with attorney, and birth mother is soooo excited. She wants DH and I their for the birth, and does not want to even hold baby.At this piont in her life she is able and willing to totally disconect from her child. I have brought over maternity clothes and vitamins, and am trying to get her a private ins. What am i supossed to pay for her and the baby? I'm not sure what to offer. Birth mother has yet to ask for anything except spicey chips..lol