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I agree that I think it is a good sign that she was/is trying to help me. I was surprised she did it without mentioning it first. I assume she thought it would be a surprise for me.
I also recently got a much nicer more honest letter from her mother, my, bgrandmother which I think helped a lot.
I find it curious that he lists himself as single, maybe they're not legally married, just 'common law married'? He states that he has 5 children and from what I can figure, one is at least 22 years old. I'm not sure if this woman is the mother of his children or not. I'm not trying to be awful about this I pass through the town he lives in many times a year I could just go bang on his door if I wanted to start trouble. I'm just trying to be very respectful of his life and privacy I thought that might be something that would be appreciated.
It seems maybe he hasn't changed a lot, apparently his response when my bmom was pregnant was avoidance of the situation then as well.
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