[blessedbybug]

It is very rare for us to have mutual contact with the first families of our kids. It is rare if they respond to anything we send. But we still find a way to keep our end of the deal. I feel you still need to do what you promised and make sure she gets an update however it was that she was to get it even if she doesn't respond to the email.

The "ball is in her court" is ideal in a relationship that seems to be working but it doesn't sound like you have the ideal here. It may not be your fault but it is still your responsibility to keep up your end of the deal. If it were me, I would send the update to her yahoo account and to the agency just to make sure she has every opportunity to get it. That she knows that you tried, and so do you. And even if she does not choose to respond, you have done what you said you would do.