I had many of the same feelings after I brought my second son home from the hospital. Do you have a friend or relative who could help you some for the next few days? The key to maintaining your sanity is to establish a routine with the kids. I would purchase a crib and a baby gate so you can put the kids in a safe place when you need to cook, shower, etc. Does the baby like a swing? Also, a video or two once in a while won't hurt the little boy. Sometimes after dinner I'll sit in a chair with both the boys and we'll all watch a video together. Hang in there, things will get better.
