Unless you have been through these cases you have no idea the things that can be said. It is more hurtful than you can imagine. Emotions are already at an all time high. Then to hear your CHILD called names or be discounted is the worst form of hurt (ours was called all of the minority slang names you can think of and then blamed for the other 3 children ever getting sick for 1 year b/c he supposedly came home 'infested' with 'something.')
Carolyn - Hang tough girl. So
much is so untrue. BELIEVE in what is true, right, good, moral, and JUST (the courts need to rethink justice, IMHO).
Oh the stories I could write and the seas I could fill with my own tears. Believe me when I tell you I have cried them and understand.
HANG TOUGH...and then (once this is over...it took me a month to get to this place) let it al go and move on.
HUGS
