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To tell or not to tell....
I am 50 and have known I was adopted from the get-go. I am confortable with that fact. I was very wanted and very fortunate.
If you don't tell, trust me, someone will do it for you. Family, friends, someone in the communty...just a little slip...and then resentment sets in.
I would rather know I was adopted and wonder what they are like, rather than to get the shock later in life.
And then I am in a situation where we really need to find my birthmother for health reasons.
I have enough heart to love All my family in my life.
shelley
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