Telling the truth is more important than we realize
Hi.
I'm a bmom of a man who would be 31 now. I searched for him last year and found him deceased. I have become close to several of his friends.
They tell me he "found" his adoption papers in the attic when he was 19. His parents never intended on telling him he was adopted. He was stunned at being deceived to say the least.
His best friend told me that after that my son began a downward spiral. Drugs, depression, and he ultimately ended his own suffering.
So, take it from one who knows. Witholding a child's heritage is NOT WISE, the repercussions can be devastating and permanent.
Good luck and God Bless,
Kim
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BMom to an Angel in Heaven
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