I do know a bit about RAD and the essential bonding that needs to go on between parents and an adoptive child. In a utopian world I think adoptive parents would be able to take 3 - 6 months off with paid leave and bond with their new child OR not have to work at all. In my case both me and my husband are only able to take about 3 weeks off with our new addition. Any tips on bonding or things that I should look out for? I don't want to have to go back to work but the reality is that we live in CA and we both HAVE to work. It is not utopia but it is the truth. Any advice would be oh so appreciated!
