[potentialsinglemom]

Originally Posted by thelowlanders

So alot of you know about my silly power struggle I took on with bio mom. The case worker and I came to a conclusion that all correspondence bmom wanted would go through her. Including the portrait shpeal. CW said she would arrange for a visit day, to transport them to Sears and have them done. But....

Today at CRB meeting, B Gma and B mom ask about the portraits. They beg it's his first year and it means alot. I recall that the CW had reassured me that she would set it up w/them. They proceeded to tell me that she said NO and also threatened them greatly to never, Ever call my home or do any more sneaky games. They were baffled and said they would never do that. Gma says she's an x-foster parent herself, etc.

So, I really feel like such a terd now. **ugh**

I do not know why you would feel like a turd for the caseworker finally saying something to these people. You have been venting for days about the drama you have been encountering. You vented about the caseworker not being supportive of you. Now I am confused... Do you want things to continue as they have been with nothing said to the parents OR do you want the caseworker to set boundaries?