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Hi All
Thanks so much for the support - my partner and I sat and read through the threads together and he is also greatful - I have since replied to bmom email and advised that myintention was onloy ever to asssist to locate and help them and now my job is done I will step back and leave future contact for the 2 of them. I felt such relief when I did this.
My partner has also decided to write and advise what things he would like answers to iin order for him to process through - he is aware she may not want to give him the answers, or like the answers he gets but at least this is something he is doing for himself.
I agree this happened very quickly (as she drove this) and she could not afford to stay in a motel and wanted to see him in his own environment rather then a mutal place - what we now need to do is slow the momentum down - hindsight is a great thing!!!
Thanks to all
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