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Unfortunately I cannot ask his parents as they have both died ( I read the obituaries online).
I understand that he's in shock, I don't know if he read the message or not for sure I sent him months ago. He has 5 other children, and I don't know if they're all 18 or not yet. From what I understand his behavior was pretty bad when my adoption happened. My bmom said she hasn't spoken to him in 25+ years.
I can understand maybe his wife would take it as a threat in some way. The funny thing is that his myspace page says that he's single. I commented to my friend that I could have just messaged his children but I thought that if they didn't know about the adoption it might cause more problems and then in turn they'd be very opposed to giving me any medical info.
Bmom says that he's 'deep down a good guy' and she thinks that he will come around, and that she will keep trying. I just don't know if it's worth it. It's really his loss.
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