Alright, I will do some reading.
Yes, I have been concerned about drug exposure etc. I feel we have a lot of love to share with a child but I can't add another child if it will severly impact my current children. I know there will be emotional things, due to loss of family etc. We are very patient people and I know we can address these things. I just don't want to do the wrong thing for our family. Would just like to add a child that needs a home, but not severe issues. Sometimes you read things on boards. and you wonder if this may not be the right thing.
Anyway, I am rambleing, thanks for your input c.a.