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Feeling, I have not read the other posts here but wanted to answer you. I have a similar situation with my SS. His mother would squander the money from him and not think twice. The nice part is that he now has to share everything with a sibling so she will be safe.
Anyway, maybe you could set something up like my grandmother has done for us. She has her will set that none of the grandkids can get their inheritance till we turn 40. She origianlly set it this was as I was the one grandchild that got divorced at a young age. She felt at 40 we would all be mature enough to know how to spend wisely. My SIL on my DH's side, her grandmother put everything in a trust till they were 25. Maybe even put an executor on there that has to approve expenses till a certain age and you can tell the executor what is allowed. Just make sure it is applied to all your kids so your son doesn't feel singled out.
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