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i agree to a point about name brand clothing, etc. though i treat my foster kids like mine. i am willing to go to certain name brand stores for sales and clearance for my kids, not full price. i do the same for foster kids. if my kids want something beyond that price they pay for it, same for fosters. if i buy my dd new earrings i'd do it for a foster child. and NO WAY on earth would i only spend the bday and christmas allotment ONLY on the foster child. In our state it is a very low amount. when i take a child in, it's with the expectation i'll treat them as my own. i spend on them for those occassions what i'd spend on my own kids.
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