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Old 12-03-2008, 12:40 PM
telman999 telman999 is offline
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Help for childs mother

I feel your pain nalansor. I adopted my nephew and now his little sister is in foster care and living at my house. My sister whom my wife and I went above and beyond the call of duty to help does not want to help herself. We have tried everything we can to help her. This will sound very cold and uncaring BUT... What happens to her happens to her you did your part she is an adult and must now take responsibilities for her actions. Remember this you have but one responsibility and that is to the child. After a yr of doing my best for my sister I sat down with everyone in my family and told them that although I love my sister and that will never change I am only going to do those things which are in the best interests of the kids. No one was upset with my decision they all understood except for my sister it took a few months for her to realize I was doing what was right for her son. Anna may get angry she may say she hates you but someday she will understand.
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