[quote=angieandstever]The attorney and ex wife sound like a bunch of idiots! As hard as it is I would take their comments and throw them out the window! Seriously what a bunch of morons. In answer to your questions about how you are going to get over it, take one big look at that adorable baby boy of yours, think about how much you love him, give him a big squeeze and kiss and no matter what tell yourself you will not let their comments get to you. They are not worth that pain!
Ditto!!
As far as the judge goes, I am sure there are cases where people claimed other children as dependents to decrease child support owed. As much as it sucks that as adoptive parents we are scrutinized more often, just provide the proper documentation and move on. He is your husband's child period!!!!
Yes, I bet the judge was testing him for a reaction as to the possibility that he may not be telling the truth about his son so that he could get out of CS. You know the truth but the judge sees many men who make up all types of stories. I would NOT take that personal either.
HUGS to you!!!!!
Ditto 
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12/07- FC & Received PA
12/28/07- Entered PGN
1/15/08/ KO of PGN-needs 3 corrections
1/28-2/2/08 visit 
1/31/08-Reg CA
2/12/08-obtained number for reg CA 
2/28/08-resubmit to PGN
3/31/08-4/3/08-2nd review?
4/21/08-Out of PGN  God
5/5/08 A-deed signed/BC needs to be reg/w/RENAP (RENAP 4/30/08)
5/16/08-BC completed
5/21/08- ORANGE
5/30/08-DNA sent to US Embassy-waiting for PINK
6/3/08- PINK
6/8/08-Joshua's 1st Birthday 
6/11/08- Embassy apt
6/14/08- HOME FOREVER  
7/25/08-received registered adoption decree in our state
8/14/08- received USA State Birth Certificate
8/25/08- received USA Soicial Security Card
8/25/08 -received letter fr USCIS-up to 120 days to rec the G-884 VISA info
9/15/08-received G-884 Visa packet info from USCIS buffalo-waited three weeks 
4/10/09- G-639
10/16/09-rec G-639
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