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It's funny because my wife, who is adopted, doesn't want me to use any terms but "Mom" and "Dad" for her birth parents.
As far as she's concerned, she doesn't have birthparents and adoptive parents. She has two sets of parents, and that's that.
If someone says "How's your mom?", she says "Which one?"
It's obviously a personal preference, so I'd would advise you to just do your best to not let it bother you unless it's done on purpose with the intent to upset you.
Last edited by r0ller : 12-03-2008 at 12:17 PM.
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