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we aren't required to, but give fs 16 10 a week, which is what he was getting at his old fhome. however, we deduct from it if he does not wake up on time on his own, does not brush his teeth, shower, etc. he can buy whatever with it. we will buy basic clothing and needs but if he wants special brand name stuff, fancy sneakers, fancy deodorant and cologne it is his deal.
the other two have jobs (well, one got fired, but...) and they also get the same treatment as to what we will buy. if they want to order a pizza or buy trendy stuff it is their responsibility. as of now the one without a job (who is not trying to hard to get one) does not get allowance. he is too old at 18 in my book.
our bios/adopted son get basic things too, anything with a name brand comes from a thrift shop, yard sale, or as a gift from family.
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jenny
2 bio daughters, 6 and 5
dfs adopted, 3
fs 14, fs 15
former placements:
f brothers 7,8,10
fd 15
ad son's bio mom 18
fs 18
fs 16
fs 18
fs 15
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