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This is our third Christmas in 'this' economy...actually we are much better off this year than last...and we are not in a great place yet...LOL!
Our kids Christmas will be the same as always...wayyyy toooo manyyyy gifts from family, none from us, and three gifts plus their stockings from Santa. This year we are pushing more practical gifts from the four sets of generous grandparents...plus a great grandmother and then the aunts and uncles...DH's family are big gift givers. DH's father/wife and mother/friend spend several hundred dollars per child...each...so plenty of gifts right there.
I am trying to get them to buy clothes, shoes, sneakers, and giving money toward gymnastics...but they worry they won't have toys. HELLO, have you seen my house? (Actually we just cleaned out and donated a ton of stuff...again.) Have you looked at their lists and what is already checked off from others buying it? Toys are not what they need...sneakers...yes...especially for my boy 'big foot' who never wears out a pair of sneakers...he simply outgrows them! And both kids just had growth spurts...about a month too early...so they need clothes, pajamas, sweats, socks, undies...all of it. I DO truly appreciate their generosity...but honestly wish they would listen to what we are saying they need this year. Time will tell. Plus my kids do appreciate any gift...even practical ones like clothes and sneakers.
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Proud Mommy to two...who have taught me I can not change their pasts but I can change me and the way I parent them~
*Yaya~My Siberian Sweetie ~born in 2001~Home 2002~Now 8 and a 'Tween', and in 3rd grade. She's all girl!!!
*Bubbs~My Samaran Sunshine~born in 2003~Home 2004~now 6, in Kindy and such a sweet, silly & special boy!
'My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to, your dreams stay big, and your worries stay small, You never need to carry more than you can hold, and while you're out there getting where you're getting to, I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too, Yeah, this, is my wish.'
~"My Wish" by Rascal Flatts
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