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Old 12-03-2008, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by melissa_bear003
[I'm honestly not able to say that I would be comfortable with another nursing my child.[/b]

I think this is exactly why I have a problem with it.....I know that my child is now D's child - I really do - and I've come to terms with that on SOOOO many levels. Cupcake running to her when she's hurt, calling out Mama and going to D - I GET it, I really do.

But in the beginning, when my body was producing milk that was a constant (and painful - physically and emotionally) reminder that I had just brought a child into this world that I WASN'T bfeeding, I don't think I could handle the thought of someone else doing it.

Again, I apologize if I offend, I'm just trying to offer my absolute most honest opinion.
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