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not to stress you out but it could happen...
I don't mean to freak you out more, but disruptions do happen. We had a baby home for a weekend, told everyone, thought it was a "go" and the bmom changed her mind. She had not signed and it was her perogative. Did that baby deserve any less to be loved for that weekend? NO. Were we right to become attached? YES. Did her bmom love the H*LL out of her? YES again. DID IT SUCK AND HURT MORE THAN I HAVE EVER HURT BEFORE?? YOU BET!! We know she is in a good home and like to think that she needed us for a few days... We cried and went back in the books the next day for fear of being out and missing another chance. A few months later, DD#2 came home to us, and she is sooooo one of us.... We think of that first baby often and hope she is doing well.
Like I said, don't want to freak you out more, but it does happen, and most times it is not about you, but about what the bfamily has going on, so don't take it personally.
Mega
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all the AI attempts insurance would cover and one IVF attempt that insurance did not cover - before July 04
started investigating adoption - July 04
signed with agency - Sept 04
Homestudy complete April 05- "we're in the book!"
Considered May and July 05 - not chosen
DD born August 05 - we're chosen that same day - home in 24 hours
what an awesome baby girl!!! Wish we went right to adoption!!
WE'VE FINALIZED!!! FOREVER OURS 4/28/06 
Working on domestic adoption #2 - submitted paperwork early Feb 07..... 
In the Books April 1 - no foolin'!!!
Match fell through, end of June - bmom decided to parent.
Disruption of baby girl in August - bmom decided to parent....
Matched - December 2007
Baby born Feb 08 - Welcome Baby Cakes!!
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