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Originally Posted by agathaj
"I would have kept her at bay, so to speak, to maybe "try and teach her a lesson". I know that sounds messed up, but so is adoption, lol.So many conflicting feelings."
I believe my bdaughter is doing this too me - the lesson has worked! I want to yell okay,okay I'm sorry. But I don't think she'd understand.
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She will get it in time. How old is she? I have to say that reading "The Girls Who Went Away" really helped me to empathize with my n mom. It took away almost any anger I had regarding my relinquishment. Unfortunately, made me VERY angry with the system, but Im trying to work through that, too.