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I hope you have relaxed . The birthmom will address everything important to her. I don't think birthmoms are looking for PAP that are going to leave her a loop hole to "take the baby back" as you said, but I think they (and I am not nor have ever placed a child for adoption) are looking for someone they know they WON't worry is going to do things totally opposite from them. They are looking for a match just as you are. They will ask you about anything that is important to them and then you will know if it is a match. Breastfeeding will probably be important to some bmom, but to others it may not. And to some, they may be glad you are willing to do something that will take alot of work to get going, but that you love that child enough already, to be looking at anything you can do for that child.
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