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Another Thought
There are states out there where the mom can't change her mom after she signs the paper example The state of Oregon. My son was born in Oregon and we knew she couldn't change her mind once she signed the paper. In my case we were orginally going to adopt from Guatamala but they closed 2003 this chance happen upon us as I was dead set against domestic for various reasons which all seem familiar and others seem silly now. We have a good open adoption which I am truly grateful. We were honest in all our answers to questions like could they name the baby. Our answer .... well we have a name picked out it's a good one so we think and this is why. Luckily they loved it just wanted to ask etc. We agreed on pretty much else and talked about stuff as it came up stuff that wasn't as important to us obviously didn't come up and stuff we wanted did. It's like a marriage sometimes it comes down to compromise. Good luck in your search.
Angela
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