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Originally Posted by calee
Yes, I believe you should discuss it. It is a very emotionally charged topic that many e-moms have strong feelings (one way or another) about. If she chooses not to match with you based on it, so be it. That means that child was not your baby. Just like you have a right to turn down a match if you have a major issue with something, an e-mom has that same right. It is a very early, very personal, very intimate act that a brand new mother may or may not be comfortable giving over to another mother. That is neither right nor wrong-it just is. You choosing to do it is totally your right-her choosing to not choose you because of it is totally hers.
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That's what I was trying to say. Nicely done.