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DD's foster mom has both hinted and asked outright for money, and asks us and 2 other families whose children she fostered. Each time the situation is more dire, and she seems to have a pattern of illnesses, deaths in the family, etc that she needs money for. It's difficult for me not to help her, but as said in previous posts, I'm not going to allow myself to feel obligated to help her for years to come. I struggle with it everytime I think about her, but things are tight for us too, though surely not to the extent of her struggles.
Follow your heart--I understand your struggle.
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Susie
Bio DS 5/20/05
11/13/2007 received amended I-171H
11/20/2007 dossier to Guatemala and referral of baby girl!!!  
12/1-4/2007 Visit trip to sign POA and meet Ryenn  
12/19/2007 DNA results to USE 99.99% match 
1/25/08 found out we're out of FC, not sure of date
2/16 thru 2/20 - visit numero dos!
2/21/08 - PA!!!
2/27/08 - in PGN! Praying for a quick OUT!
4/21/08 - OUT of PGN!!!!
4/29/08 - ORANGE!!! 
5/8/08 - DNA at LabCorp - quick results please!!
5/13/08 - DNA at USE!! PINK me USE!! 
5/14/08 - PINK! (but didn't find out until 5/20!)
5/25/08 - Gotcha day
5/29/08 - home forever
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