[amylynn3]

Not a family member, but the comparisons to getting a puppy reminded me of an experience I had.

DH and I had just finished up all the testing to figure out why we weren't able to conceive. All the tests came back fine and the reasone why is inconclusive. At that point, I was all done being poked, proded and "violated"...as I am sure many of you can relate.

Anyway, it was time for the consultation with the doctor to discuss next steps. The doctor was pushing for IVF. Our insurance did not cover it, and we did not want to put all kinds of money into something that might not work. So, we decided to start the adoption process. When we told the doctor, he stated that we should really try IVF...adopting is like getting a puppy. He even went on to say that two young, attractive people like us would create such a beautiful child. I am so tempted to bring my "puppies" into his office to show them off!

Needless to say, we NEVER went back there again!