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we had one foster kid who was a line of sight kid, meaning I had to see him at all times. We did visits at my discretion at my home. I had the bio family over for thanksgiving and Christmas, as that was the only way for him to see them. I had a good relationship with the bio's and it worked well for us.
My current kids is a very different situation. When I just had ds, we never heard from the bios on special days. No calls, cards, gifts for birthdays or Christmas. Now that we have his sisters, We got calls on Christmas and they sent the girls gifts, but did not acknowledge son in anyway. Now that was hard! I would never make accomadations for this family. Now that TPR has happened, we will definitely not have contact this year. Hopefully it will be easier on the kids, because I can say the bios are not allowed to have contact.
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