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My bio son has never met his father. It wasn't ever a secret - he knew there had to be a father. When I married and he was step-parent adopted (at the age of 4) he had never asked about his birth father. He is 12 now and he knows that I'm willing to discuss anything - but I don't have a lot of info. He does ask the random question about physical looks - starting to want to know what he'll look like, how tall he'll be, etc. My stock answer is "he wasn't ready to be a dad". It's true and doesn't put the blame on my son - who deserves none.
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