[joskids]

I tell my son that his father works hard for our family and is a man to be respected, just like our son will be when he grows up. And I tell him that his biological father was a bully, made bad choices, and is in jail. I'm honest that, when bad choices are made, the consequences are not good, even for adults. It's not always easy to tell the truth, but I think it's generally best when told properly. If a child is a product of rape or incest, I think that is information better left unsaid unless it is necessary later in life. Kids need to know there are consequences in life and that they will be making choices that affect them forever.