Yes, my older son went through the adoption, birth everything together....I was just thinking that he is still a bit young (5) to make sense of all this....He is just starting to understand the whole family thing...He still wants to mary me!
He doesn't understand who is his nephew, who is their sisters, ect....this is only starting to fall into place now....
I think what also surprised me was the fact that our social worker, who is very experienced (20 years...), who done MANY local and international adoptions has NEVER had this situation in her career!? She doesn't even know what to advise us....
But, yes, the more I think about this, the more greatfull I become.
