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i understand your reasons for not wanting to tell your son. as for my mother, i am not sure of why she done the things she did as she will not even talk about it. all i know is she was dating the guy (my biological father) & got pregnant. i know she had a female roommate when she met my stepfather but i do not know if this roommate lived with her during the pregnacy or after, but if i remember right it was during also. however, my stepfather was in the service but was originally from wv so that is why they moved to wv. and when i was 3 he adopted me. i am not sure what is in my mothers mind but she refuses to talk about it, and i think it is more in the way of afraid to hurt my father (my stepfather) than anything. and i am a firm believer that people can change, and no matter how they were at the time, could be a wonderful person now. if not then so be it. i do think that everyone has the right to know who their blood family is. for many reasons. and i hope someone can help me find out who my birthfather is.
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