What votemom said!
Sorry you are dealing with this. I must be the only person who didn't like Annie - I saw the movie as a teenager and didn't get why it was/is so popular. I found it pretty depressing, and that was long before we decided to adopt from another country. I'm probably a lot less hip than I want to be
Since your children are still healing, you should do whatever is right for them, and as their mom you know best. Good luck and Merry Christmas!