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Originally Posted by Rubi
I must say....there are so many emotions streaming through my head at this moment.....I'm also thinking: What will the impact be on my child ,when he is older, if we do agree or don't agree to alow his birth grandfather to include him......Why would his b gf want to do this? When you adopt a baby you think that he is exclusively yours, but stuff like this do remind you that your child has another side that needs to be nurtured and excepted and respect as well.....
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I am a firstmom and my parents included my son in their will. At this time he their only grandchild. We didn't even ask his adoptive parents, their will just states that if I have passed on before they do that any children whether parented or placed are to receive my share of the inheritance.
My parents are my adoptive parents, just so you know, and my dad hasn't been super on board with OA, but he felt this was important.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
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