[Rubi]

We have adopted our son at birth through a semi-open adoption. The social worker just phoned and said that our child's biological grandfather wants to include our child in his will....She said that she had never had this done before and therefore don't know what to advice us. We do not want to give any pesonal info and we are afraid that if we give him or chil's id no they might trace us through home affairs.....We want to do this for our child, but don't know if this is the'right ' thing to do....The social worker said that we need to get legal advice and draw up a contract, ect....What's your thoughts and ideas regarding this matter...What do we need to keep in mind? Any advice is welcome...Thanx