I buy myself things and wrap them up from Santa
This year I'm getting a new laptop, some books, and I"m going to take a cooking class for the fun of it.
I also bought myself a copy printer scanner but I got it in front of the kids and said it was just a gift for me from me.
Other things I'd love but I'm not going to spend the money one - clothes, more picture frames, my dinning room re-painted, my son to know exactly what his homework is everyday for a month (he gets home, has it written down but doesn't know what to do.)... and 1 night out a month without the kids for a year... I'm dreaming.