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It is nearly impossible to overturn an adoption. And no matter how an open adoption plan is written - the power is really in the adoptive parents' hands. If the birth parent crosses the line - the adoptive parent can cut them off. Typically there are several loopholes written into every open adoption plan that make it easier to cut birth parents off. (i.e. miss one visit - plan is void)
Every case is different. We adopted from foster care. We have an open adoption with my son's birthmom and visit with her twice per year. So far it is going well. We have had successful visits. She has never questioned my parenting - even when he fell head first into pond while two feet away from me (getting wet was the only damage).
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