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Thanks - I feel so greatful to be able to talk with someone who can be objective over this - I agree there are emotions running wild and there needs be a "safe place"
Thank you also for the suggestion that I ask her to contact him only. This will be more help to us as I can see she is certainly tryin to build a wedge - a comment she made was relating to her and step son having a disagreement with her daughter and she said "I think it is his partner with the issue as most issues with sons and mothers are only caused by their partner"
This rang alarm bells and told me this is her not so subtle way of telling me where I stand - or where she wants me to be. This was very early on in the weekend.
My partner feels the same way that she may be trying to clear her own demons by her implying he should not be with a women who makes him happy until she is happy again after processing the whole adoption thing - mothers ah, no women is ever good enough for their sons!!!
Thanks again - this has been wonderful
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