[thanksgivingmom]

xx - I read what you're writing and I cannot BELIEVE it's been almost two years to the day since I was writing similar words.

My daughter was born on thanksgiving 2006 - and I came here after her birth for support. Today, I've got the best friends and the best support I could ask for.

Be good to yourself and ALLOW yourself to grieve, to miss him, to feel all the things you're feeling. (This is something that it takes a while to learn to do...I'm still working on it).

While other posters are right in that your boyfriend doesn't have that connection from carrying your son for 9 months - guys also process things differently. Heck, PEOPLE process things differently. Some people "deal" with their sadness by denying their feelings. He may be dismissing thoughts of your son, but he may not. He may just be dealing in his own way. We might not understand it as it's not OUR way, but it's a possibility.

((((hugs))))