I can't add any more than what's already been posted. Melissa, I HAVE to say I LOVED your post! Made my afternoon!!!!!
Further, I don't think it's just about 'quality' people or ignorance; I believe there really are such shallow people on this planet---which, thank God, aren't out trying to adopt. THEY don't deserve babies like mine---or anyone else who's adopted their children, KWIM?
I'm THANKFUL They've not adopted---or even tried. And, I honestly think that's something I may just say to the next person who says something like this to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Been one of those days here too....)
Sincerely,
Linny