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Old 12-01-2008, 12:20 PM
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Why so many chances?

Im so frustrated. I got a call today from Punky's sw to let me know what she is going to suggest to the judge on the tpr this Wed. She said she is going to ask for a continuence (sp?) for another two months . My heart is aching so much right now. I know I know this is the world of fost/adopt, but it still hurts. I just dont get it.

He first want nothing to do with her for her first 8 months of her life. Then he popps in and wants her, once he get married. He and his new wife does well, then she divorces him and he dissapears and leaves a message he can not care for her. Then 4 months later he pops in again wanting her back, of course with a new woman on his arm. And he gets another chance ?

So our hearts are sadden again. Now sw says he has to prove himself big time so it could be another 6 months before she goes back home. That is more time for us to love her her and get more attached. I am not going to get my hopes up, but I do know anything can happen in 6 months. I will just pray that the right thing happens. Well thanks for letting me vent.
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