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Old 12-01-2008, 10:25 AM
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I think you have your answer - if it's important, discuss it with the emom.

I wouldn't worry too much about it. In MY experience, emom's considering adoption WANT the aparents to make these important decisions - they are chosing you because they trust and have confidence in your abilities.
If you DO happen to meet someone who feels strongly against your beliefs, it's not a good match - or you may want to consider compromising your beliefs - that's up to you!!

You are also going to have to really sort out your thoughts as far as a "child born" situation. How will you feel if the child is already circ'd. Will this be a deciding factor for you.

It's totally OK to know what you are and are not ok with. Go with your heart - make the decision tht is best for YOUR family.
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