[viannqueen]

Yes I'd chalk it up for having no clue. I'd be nothing but pleased as peaches if my daughter turns out like her birthmother. She's one of the most amazing, selfless and loving young women I know.

Before we had even thought about adoption I had the mistaken idea that all birthmothers have a history with drug abuse, alcohol, sleeping around etc. I've found the opposite to be true at least for the birth mothers I've met. Such loving, LOVING people to put their children first. But I'd probably still be an ignorant fool if not for being educated about the realities of adoption and going through it myself. It's such a blessing.