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This has been bothering me for some reason, so I just wanted to make a comment...and I'm NOT attacking you at all, but thought I'd offer it for your contemplation.
I've been reading on these boards for a while now. I've heard of emom's changing their minds, emom's not being quite as honest as they could have been, paps considering a child whose been drug exposed, potential Hep C, paps being considered, short listed, then not picked...the list goes on.
Adopting is a roller coaster ride. In the grand scheme of things, circc or no circc isn't the biggest issue, by a long shot. IF you were to be picked, and the baby was circc'd, I'd really hate for you to miss your chance at becoming a parent over that. There are so many other potential issues that it seems that drawing a line in the sand over this one may have you waiting a long time.
Again, I really hope that there's an emom that has your view on things, and you have an easy match, and all goes smoothly...but I guess I'm asking you to really search your heart and see of a bit of skin is that important that you would pass up a chance for another child in your family over.
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God doesn't call the equipped. He equips the called.
Proud homeschooling Momma 
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