Yeah - we get that alot...but usually it's followed by "We don't know if we could LOVE a child that's not biologically ours"...and I say, "Well, you love eachother and aren't related....are you?
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The worst was when we were in the hospital visiting JD and his firstmom...Friends of the firstdad's were there along with one of their moms...Well, D had to sign the birth certificate, so we had to wait in the hallway with T's friends and friend's mom...
And they started with it. Well, that and how could D give away her baby. Ummm...hello - do you not see us?
Some times you just got to let it go...Yeah right - easier said than done...