Hi,
I have a good friend that is biracial and was adopted by a white family. Her abrother also sexually abused her for many years. When she finally told her mother, she was blamed.
I'm sorry your home life is so hard. I'm not sure how old you are but is living on your own an option yet? With being an Aspie, you may feel more comfortable in your own space with your own cleaning routines and being able to feel free to be yourself without judgement.
My son has classic Autism (he's 5) and I know that sometimes he NEEDS to stim on something to regulate himself. It's part of him and we are doing all we can to understand him.
None of your medical issues, Asperger's, weight gain or the abuse is YOUR fault. You have nothing to feel bad or guilty about. I'm sorry that your family doesn't understand that. HUGS!!!!!
