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Advice
Hello,
I believe you should show her the respect by talking to her in person. It's going to be hard for her no matter how you put it, but it should be done for him. Explain to her all the reasons for it also. If the true reason she placed him for adoption is to give him a better life then she should understand that it is best for him.
I myself have an open adoption, my baby is almost 3. Luckily she has grown up thinking of me as just ashley and my mom, of course, is grandma. I hope things will always be comfortable with us.
I am so sorry for your situation, but you do need to tell her. She has no rights whatsoever to this child. She needs to understand what a blessing it is that you even tell her about him. Be strong.
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