[nurse_reedle]

Originally Posted by lovemy2boys

Actually, discussing something like this in advance is a GOOD thing! If this is a make or break issue for you, you could simply ask the expectant mom what her views are on it...If she has opposing views, and she is determined to circumcise, then you know it's probably not the right match for you.

And you're right - it IS nervewracking!! But you'll be great!

Good luck to you!

Thanks! And...I think it is. I feel bad about that...but I seriously think it would bother me to be in the position of explaining about adoption and then to also expain why she did somehting we so intensely disagree with and did not have done to his brother. Maybe it is the wrong view...but I feel pretty strongly about...actually feeling sick to my stomach at the thought of one of our sons being circed for a reason that was not imperatively medically necessary.